Finding a Trusted Babysitter After a PCS
by Rebecca Alwine - August 20th, 2022
If you're a parent, one of the frustrating things about completing a PCS move to a new duty station is not knowing anyone in your new town. Unless you magically have orders to move down the street from your parents, you're probably going to need occasional help with childcare and babysitting. But how can you find a babysitter to trust in a new location?
Like anything else you want to know when moving to a new place, word of mouth and personal recommendations are key. Social media groups, community groups, and new neighbors are full of information that may help you feel settled. But when it comes to someone caring for your children in your absence, I encourage you to take all recommendations with a grain of salt.
Nothing scares me more than seeing someone post on a Facebook group along these lines: “Hi, I just moved here, and we need a sitter for date night this weekend.”
Immediately a half dozen women are volunteering to watch the child/children in their home or in your home. People you don’t even know! I mean, I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but not when it comes to my children. A trusted reference is critical, as is an interview, at the very least.
Tips for finding a new babysitter after PCSing
It's difficult to find a new babysitter right after a PCS move, so start the process early, before you have a specific date night in mind. If you're a military family seeking babysitting help after a PCS move, use the reviews and military discounts on these sites to make the process safer for everyone.
Military discounts on babysitters
Start on MilitaryChildCare.com to find DoD-approved childcare options near you. These discounts are available for each military branch, and can be applied to in-home daycare at another babysitter's home, preschool and childcare centers, and also babysitter agencies in your area. If you're going to need consistent childcare on a weekly basis, this is a great place to start and find the best military discounts on childcare.
Sittercity.com offers a military program, designed to make it easier for military families to find qualified and safe childcare providers. Membership is discounted, up to 50% off for the quarterly plan, and 25% for the monthly and annual plan. The membership includes: babysitters, full or part-time nannies, last minute care, pet sitters, housekeepers, and even help during PCS moves.
Care.com also offers a military discount and in May usually gives free membership. The process for setting up an account on both sites is very easy; you post a job and then can contact applicants who view it or meet your criteria. Through the membership, you can request background checks and view references. Both sites also allow and encourage you to pay via their payment center, so there is a record in case discrepancies arise.
How military families find reliable babysitters
Sittercity was recommended to Tiffany while she was stationed at Fort Hood. She started using it while at Joint Base Lewis McCord. “It was really easy to use, and I liked that they offered free service for military service,” she said. While there are always bad apples in the bunch, Tiffany was very pleased with how Sittercity handled a bad experience with a sitter, by removing that sitter’s account from their service.
Milspouse Tammi used Care.com to find a great sitter during a deployment, and while she was happy with the services, the babysitter stopped responding. Tammi had a hard time getting any response. “We pre-paid from our checking account, so there was nothing the service could do. I was able to leave a review on her site and had we used their payment center; we would have gotten more assistance with that part of the transaction. She was a great babysitter, the kids loved her, she just didn’t come back,” Tammi remembered.
Luke is currently using Care.com to find a nanny, “It seems more focused on babysitters than nannies, but we have been happy with it.”
Rachel didn’t have any success on either site. Instead, she relies on word of mouth, “I had better success asking on the wife pages for the new installation,” she said.
The moral of the story is, trust your instincts, trust your gut feeling, and make sure you interview extensively. Taking the word of a neighbor or new friend is my preferred way of finding a new babysitter, but I know that doesn’t work for everyone.
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Rebecca Alwine is an Army wife, mother of three and lover of her adorable pirate dog. Over the past 15 years, she’s discovered she enjoys coffee, lifting weights and most of the menial tasks of motherhood. Her days consist of working out in her garage gym, audiobooks and pretending to cook while her Instant Pot and Air Fryer do all the work. Her motto: work smarter, not harder.
